Becoming Her is a guided midlife transformation for women ready to reclaim confidence, clarity, and calm.
You are here because something inside of you feels different. You have spent years being strong, adapting, protecting others, and holding everything together. Many women reach this point in midlife when surviving no longer feels sustainable and the longing for confidence, clarity, and calm rooted in self trust becomes impossible to ignore.
Now, you are ready for something steadier, truer, and aligned with who you really are.
This is where survival ends and self trust begins.
What is Midlife Transformation?
Midlife transformation is a natural evolution of identity, confidence, and purpose. For many women in their 40s and 50s, this season brings deep emotional growth, nervous system recalibration, and a desire for authentic self trust.
Becoming Her is not about changing who you are. It is about remembering the woman you were always meant to be. Midlife is loud. Relationships shift, identity gets questioned, the body changes, and the world expects you to hold it all together. Most women walk through it in silence.
This is where that silence ends.
Inside Becoming Her, you learn how to rise from clarity, not chaos. You stop shrinking. You stop apologizing. You stop carrying the emotional load alone. You finally give yourself permission to lead your life with calm strength and confidence.
• Tired of being the strong one
• Like you are holding so much it feels heavy
• Invisible in rooms where you should be seen
• Disconnected from your own needs and voice
• Ready for confidence, not just coping
You are not broken. You are not behind. You are becoming.
Becoming Her is a personalized journey rooted in nervous system regulation, identity work, and lived wisdom.
We focus on:
• Restoring self trust and inner clarity
• Regulating your nervous system so overwhelm softens
• Strengthening emotional boundaries and voice
• Reconnecting to your values and your own direction
• Practical daily rhythms that calm the inner noise
• Confidence that feels rooted, not forced
For example, learning to pause instead of reacting in family or work conversations, so you protect your energy, speak clearly, and stop carrying conversations that were never yours to hold.
This is not temporary motivation. It is lasting alignment.
Becoming Her is delivered through intentional one-on-one guidance designed around your season of life.
You will receive:
• Personalized coaching
• Nervous system grounded practices
• Tools you use daily with clarity and ease
• Emotional processing anchored in safety
• Accountability that meets you with compassion
You are guided. You are not left alone in this.
I am Jenn Board, founder of Lavish Life Living and creator of the Becoming Her Method.
For years, I was strong in all the ways the world applauded, while inside I felt unseen, overwhelmed, and quietly depleted.
I learned what it feels like to stay silent for survival. I learned the heaviness of keeping everything together, the exhaustion that comes from always protecting others first, and the ache of slowly losing sight of who I was.
One day, something inside me shifted. I realized survival was no longer enough.
I could feel in my bones that something had to change. What I needed most was not more motivation, more strategies, or more to do.
I needed help becoming me again, with steadiness, clarity, and self trust.
I created Becoming Her because this is the work I wish I had sooner.
This is not about perfection, or pushing harder, or pretending nothing hurts.
This is about coming home to yourself, the real you.
Your next chapter begins the moment you decide you are done carrying it all alone. If your heart is tired, if your confidence feels dim, if you know you were made for more than the version of life you have been surviving, then this is your moment. When you are ready to step into your becoming, I am here to walk with you, steady and present, every step of the way.whatever you buy from us will help you achieve your goals.
Your next chapter is not permission you need.
It is a decision you make.
You are becoming. And I am honored to walk with you.
"Before Becoming Her, I felt overwhelmed and disconnected, like I was moving through life on autopilot. I barely recognized the woman in the mirror and often felt empty. Now I make decisions with confidence, feel calmer in stressful moments, and show up as a stronger business owner and mom."
Sarah, 48
"I was hesitant at first, to say the least. I didn’t realize how much of my identity was tied to being needed. As my kids grew, I felt lost and anxious. This work helped me reconnect with myself and feel steady and confident in this new season, and it helped me discover a passion project of my own."
Marla, 50
"After my divorce, I felt disconnected from who I was and unsure of what came next. Becoming Her helped me rebuild trust in myself and hear my own voice again. I learned how to make decisions without fear, set healthy boundaries, and feel grounded and hopeful about the relationships I am creating moving forward."
Lauren, 46
"I spent much of my life putting everyone else first and calling it love. Becoming Her taught me how to set boundaries without guilt, speak up without fear, and walk away from spaces that no longer fit who I was becoming, while honoring the grief that came with that. I feel calmer, clearer, and more like myself than I have in years."
Andrea, 52
“I was exhausted from holding everything together and pretending I was fine. This work helped me slow down, listen to my body, and stop living in constant stress. I make decisions now from clarity, not panic.”
Kim, 41
"I started Becoming Her feeling confused and overwhelmed. Midlife isn’t easy, but this work gave me the grounding I needed to start living again. I finished feeling confident, centered, and connected to who I am becoming. This wasn’t about fixing me. It helped me come home to myself."
Rachel, 61
Please reach out if you cannot find an answer to your question.
Becoming Her is for women in midlife who are seeking confidence, calm, and self trust. It is especially supportive for women navigating identity shifts, emotional overwhelm, or a season of transition who want to feel grounded and connected to themselves again.
No. Becoming Her is a coaching and personal development experience. It does not replace therapy or medical care, but it offers grounded support for identity work, nervous system regulation, and personal growth.
Not at all. Many women join because something feels off, even if everything looks fine on the outside. Becoming Her is for women who are ready to stop surviving and start living with clarity and intention.
Women often experience increased self trust, clearer boundaries, emotional steadiness, and greater confidence in decision making. Many also notice they feel calmer in stressful situations and more connected to who they are becoming.
It begins with a discovery conversation. This is a no pressure space to explore where you are, what you need, and whether Becoming Her is the right fit for you.
The length of the experience is personalized and based on your goals and current season of life. This is not a one size fits all program.
Becoming Her is grounded in lived wisdom and nervous system informed practices. Faith may be honored if it is part of your life, but the work is inclusive and supportive of women from all backgrounds.
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